Vows & Promises

Since high school, friends and family members have asked me to officiate and emcee at parties, weddings, funerals, plays, local beauty pageants and other special events.  I seem to have a knack for engaging the audience and entertaining the participants.

I went on to win public speaking awards, studied Speech Communications at Dixie College and then Counseling, Psychology, Social Work, & World Religions at Utah State, The University of Utah and Portland State University.  Eventually, I became a professional speaker and trainer.  I am the author of the book, Sales Manager 101, and was asked to collaborate with Jack Canfield (author of the book, Chicken Soup for the Soul) on another book, “The Masters of Success.” 

I found that non-religious couples often have a difficult time finding someone to officiate at their ceremony.  They’re uncomfortable going to a church they don’t actually attend and the Justice-of-the-Peace option is often very expensive, impersonal and “judicial” (kinda like going to the DMV).  Many couples were looking for intimate, spiritual alternatives - involving someone who’ll be an integral part of their planning, their rehearsal and their happiest day.

So, in 2001, I jumped through the necessary hoops to become legally authorized to perform marriages in the State of Utah.  As well, I reaffirmed my authorization with the States of Idaho and Oregon by filing an “Affidavit of Authority to Perform Marriages.”  Documentation of my credentials have been verified by the Salt Lake County Clerk and Wasatch County, on multiple occasions - I would be happy to provide a copy, if you like.  Just so you know, I am legal in all 50 states and all counties in Utah.

My philosophy about choosing an officiant is basically summed-up in one word, “chemistry.”   Those very intimate, spiritual moments, when the three of us will be telling the story of your love and defining your commitment will be a part of you forever.  It will only be perfect with someone you feel comfortable with.  I hope I am the person with whom you have that connection, but if not, I hope you'll choose someone who feels just right.